this is a public service announcement:

I am not a girl. I am not a lady. Please don’t call me “girl”. If you slip up and say “mm qurl you lookin’ so flyyy” or something like that, it’s fine, just correct yourself next time, but please, please, PLEASE don’t continually call me that, on purpose, multiple times in a row, knowing full well that is NOT WHAT I AM, because I know this seems like a small, silly, trivial thing, but I can’t explain the extent of the effect it actually has on me. It hurts. It fucking hurts. Stop it now.

  #trans    #queer    #misgendering    #trigger warning    #body dysphoria    #cissexism